Dear Daughter,
This will likely be my shortest letter yet. I want you to ask yourself these 3 very important questions and in this exact order before any words escape the fragile confines of your mouth:
- Is it true?
- Is it nice?
- Is it necessary?
Is it true? Well this should be pretty easy to answer. It is a simple yes or no.
Is it nice? This can sometimes be subjective, but give it your best go.
Is it necessary? Think about if you do say it, what are the consequences?
Before I end this letter, remember, these rules apply to gossip as well. Never say something about someone that you would not be able to say to their face. Sometimes our inner dialogue gets carried away in a ditch effort to make ourselves feel better in that moment, although our inner dialogue does not think of the ripple effect that words can carry. Control your inner dialogue, watch your words, and choose what you say wisely.